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My maternal grandmother had six kids she kept plus four she didn’t, and my mom was the Nice louis Tomlinson Harry I Am A Child Of Soulmates Shirt. My oldest uncle had twelve kids and they all have at least two, possibly more by now. There was a family event and I was cut off. It’s a nasty story but boils down to my grandmother was a mean old creature and showed her ass when my mom died, I didn’t roll over and accept it so she tried to turn the whole family against me. Most of my cousins and an aunt took my side, everyone else was afraid of being disinherited. Which turns out GREAT for them because my deadbeat younger uncle got everything anyway by hiding when he let her die until he’d gotten everything worth a buck. Anyway, on Dad’s side I have fewer cousins but still enough to pad my cousin collection into the triple digits. It’s funny because my stepmom has two siblings but I only have two cousins through her. (But I got the best dang little brother ever so I forgive her for not helping me add to my cousin hoarde. He was three when our parents married and is by far the best.)

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